Written and narrated by Sandy ElChaar.
We’ve all experienced that uneasy feeling that creeps in when life feels overwhelming, like dark clouds gathering in an otherwise clear sky. This feeling, often known as anxiety, brings with it a mix of tension, doubt, and a sense of impending uncertainty. It can strike unexpectedly, making even simple moments feel heavy.
Anxiety is something we all encounter, but what exactly causes it? At its core, anxiety is a reaction to perceived danger, even if that danger isn’t immediately clear. It’s as though the mind and body are preparing for a threat, gearing up for something that may never come. This state of readiness can leave us feeling on edge, unsure of how to proceed.
The way anxiety manifests can differ from person to person. For some, it feels as though the world itself is closing in, narrowing their options and making them feel stuck. For others, it’s an inner tightening, where you don’t even feel comfortable in your own skin—almost like you don’t have space inside yourself to just be. It’s as if you’re on a path that’s growing more restrictive, step by step, with no clear way to turn back or move forward freely. Anxiety can feel a lot like this. It’s that sense of restriction, both outside and inside, that makes us feel trapped, uncertain, and out of control.
It’s easy to mix up fear and anxiety, but they’re not exactly the same. Fear is a response to a specific, immediate danger — something real and present, like being in a risky situation or hearing about a loved one’s illness. Anxiety, on the other hand, is less about the here and now and more about a lingering unease that follows us without a clear reason. It is like a constant hum in the background, a vague feeling of unease that isn’t always tied to a particular threat.
Both fear and anxiety have their purpose, but where fear protects us by alerting us to real dangers, anxiety can sometimes overwhelm us. It narrows our perspective, making it hard to see beyond the present worry or situation. This limitation can leave us feeling cornered, with fewer options and an unclear path forward.
Anxiety is a natural part of being human. It stems from the awareness that life is unpredictable, fragile, and full of unknowns. This realization can be unsettling, as it reminds us that no matter how much we plan or prepare, there will always be things beyond our control. However, this same awareness also has a deeper significance. It’s what pushes us to reflect on our lives, to think about what really matters, and to recognize the value of each moment.
Understanding and living with this uncertainty is part of the human experience. Anxiety often shows up to remind us of these uncertainties, and while it can feel uncomfortable, it’s also an invitation to look deeper. What are we truly afraid of? What are the values and goals that anchor us, even in times of doubt?
Rather than avoiding anxiety, it’s possible to confront it and learn from it. By acknowledging its presence, we can begin to explore what it’s trying to tell us. What are we worried about? Is there something specific, or is it just a general sense of unease? Sometimes, anxiety points us to areas in our lives where we feel unprepared or out of control. Other times, it encourages us to slow down and reflect on what we need in order to feel more secure or grounded. Once we begin to understand our anxiety, we can take steps to manage it. This might mean taking time to reflect, creating space for ourselves to think, or talking to someone about what we’re feeling. The goal isn’t to get rid of anxiety completely—that’s not realistic—but to make it something we can handle, something we can live with.
Like storm clouds that eventually pass, anxiety can lead to moments of clarity if we allow it. It’s through facing this discomfort that we often discover more about ourselves—what we fear, what we value, and how we can find balance even in uncertainty. In the end, anxiety can help us find clarity. By facing the storm clouds instead of running from them, we can learn to live with uncertainty and even find strength in it. The next time you feel those clouds rolling in, remember that they’re part of the journey—and that you have the power to navigate through them.
Thor, K.-A. (Ed.). (2010). Anxiety: Existential analysis notes. Notes co-typed by M. Mathers, B. Daley, D. Coles, R. Chapman, & K.-A. Thor from the EA First Cohort Seminars, March 2010 – May 2010.